Steve

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About me

Fun-loving and adventurous, I tend to color outside the lines. Not because I am uncoordinated, though, as I am actually pretty athletic. Haha. I am just open to possibility, love to explore new places and try new things. I enjoy music and love to sing, especially harmonize. I "play" the djembe drum in a somewhat rhythmical fashion. I like to travel, attend festivals, concerts, etc. I love anything to do with being in, on or around water. Responsible and trustworthy, I have enjoyed a long and successful career in the accounting/finance field. I would say that I am not your typical bean counter, however, as I am chock full of ideas and love to improve upon or create new things. Although likable and seasoned with a dash of charm, I am not without spot or blemish. Truth be told...I have the tendency to spill food on the front of my shirts. There, I said it. On the bright side, I am kind to strangers. I am warm, friendly, masculine and sensitive. I wear my heart on my sleeve. Rather than weakness, it is a source of strength...an invitation to healthy connection, emotional intimacy. Plain and simple, I am a lover...playful, passionate, affectionate and giving. I enjoy pleasing and thoughtfully serving my partner.

Looking for

A woman with vibrant energy, thoughtful, kind, appreciative, playful, intelligent. Looking to partner with a woman who indulges in self-care, loves to explore and try new things...a courageous woman with bit of a wild streak :-) Someone who brings energy to conversation and a sense of fun to everyday life together. Someone who communicates in a healthy manner that leads to understanding, kindness and care. Please excuse yourself from reaching out to me if you are prone to passive or passive/aggressive interactions with others OR if you tend to invoke the silent treatment out of kindness so as not to hurt anyone's feelings OR if prone to unsubstantiated thought - flash judgments, jumping to conclusions, speculation and conjecture - as a decision-making model. I don't think we would be a good match. Instead, what I value is open, honest, vulnerable, transparent communication. Nothing hidden. Where we approach disagreement with humility and curiosity, asking questions that clarify while seeking to understand. Healthy conflict resolution - we don't invite issues or exacerbate disagreements, but we don't avoid them either.

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