Filipina Dating and Safety Tips

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We're sure that if you’re in TrulyFilipino, you’re looking for a woman who you want to spend the rest of your life with. The perfect women for that role would be Filipino women. Filipinos are known all over the world for their hospitality and kindness. You’ll never regret it if you date or marry one. The best way for foreigners to meet Filipino women would be in online dating sites specifically a niche dating site for Filipinos.

Here are the advantages you’ll notice when you date a Filipino online:

  1. Filipino Women are considered to be one of the most beautiful women in the world.

    Now this is not a bluff, they’re even considered to be one of the most beautiful women in the world. With their comparison to other nationalities in Asia, they have light brown to brown skin, a voluptuous body, and a beautiful face. Filipino ladies really are beautiful not just on the outside but on the inside as well. They're fun loving, family oriented, sweet, etc. The list is endless!

  2. Most (If not all) Filipino Women can converse in English.

    People from the Philippines have two major languages. English and Filipino. According to a study from K International, the Philippines is in rank #4 for the countries around the world with the most english speakers.

    Filipino english speakers fun fact

    Miscommunication and misunderstanding can be prevented if both of you can comprise on a specific language. But don’t worry, most Filipino women have a good educational background. The probability of finding a non-english speaking Filipino is practically very low.

  3. Filipino women are nurturers.

    They are family oriented. It is in the nature of a Filipino lady to take care of her family. These women value their family above all else, even themselves. They take pride in looking after their family by providing for them and the state on how they live. When you get to know a woman with that quality just like on TrulyFilipino, she’s the one!

  4. Filipino Women are Friendly.

    Friendliness comes naturally to Filipinos. It’s one of the traits of the people in the Philippines that makes them one of the friendliest and most welcoming countries in the world according to the BBC. When you find a Filipino beauty on TrulyFilipino, don’t hesitate to send an interest or a message. They’ll most likely respond because they’re very approachable and friendly.

  5. Filipino women values the concept of marriage.

    Because of their culture and religious upbringing, these women value and respect the idea of marriage. Instead of using divorce as the only solution when getting to a huge fight with their significant other, Filipinos are more likely to sit down and discuss the problem at hand. The chances of getting a divorce when you marry a Filipino is significantly lower compared to being married to a western woman.

    Filipino women value

    Also, these women are faithful to their significant other. Once she’s married to someone, she’s committed to her husband for life. Note that the same courtesy should also be returned to her.

  6. Filipino women don’t love you because of your money.

    It’s a common misconception that Asians, specifically Filipino women only want to date foreigners because of their money and their standard in life. The truth is, looks and the contents of a man’s wallet are not the essence that makes a relationship work. If she’s committed and affectionate about you, and you show the same affection to her, the relationship would most likely work.

    Related Article: A Man's Unveiled Thoughts About Dating A Filipina

  7. Filipino Women are strong and independent.

    Diane Mariechild quote about strong and independent women

    At a very young age, Filipino women are advised by their mothers about the makings of a good homemaker. Like cooking, doing household chores, taking care of the kids, etc. But remember that this era is now filled with working women. Of course, they still have pride in doing household chores but their sense of independence remains.

    Filipino women posses the qualities a man would look for in a wife. So when looking for a Filipino wife, you know what to do and where to look for.

    Filipinas are known to be one of the most beautiful and charming women in the world. With their pleasing personality, good upbringing and world renowned beauty, they’re just the perfect wife material.

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Filipino women characteristics and values

If you’re planning on dating or marrying a Filipina, these tips would save you from a lot of heartaches in the future. In order to capture her heart, there are some things you need to consider doing.

Here are some tips how to date a Filipina:

  1. Be a gentleman.

    Women all over the world, not just Filipinos, appreciate and love this trait from men. It is truly an attractive trait to posses. Being a gentleman means:

    • keeping your language in check
    • holding the door open for her
    • making sure you have a good hygiene
    • keeping the promises you’ve made
    • giving sincere compliments
    • saying “Thank you” and “Please”
    • etc.

    Being a gentleman never goes out of style. It can make you look more attractive for a Filipino if you’re one. Since good men seems harder to find these days.

  2. Respect her religious beliefs and traditions.

    Religious and family values of a Filipino woman

    Filipinos are known all over the world as being one of the most religious nationalities. 80% of the population are Catholics with deep devotion. Respect and be open minded about her religion.

    Related Article: Dating A Filipino Christian: How To Make the Relationship Work

  3. Be kind and be respectful towards her family.

    Filipinos were raised to be family oriented. They value family more than anything else in the world. It would definitely break her heart if you wouldn’t respect and love her family as much as she does. Also, her family’s opinion matters when it comes to her relationship. So it’s always better to show respect and kindness all the time.

  4. Learn her dialect.

    Learning her native dialect means you’re making the effort of learning about her culture. Say things like “Mahal kita” and she’ll be head over heals in love with you. Learn some sweet words from her dialect. A little effort can go a long way.

  5. Be generous.

    It has always been a necessity for a man to buy a girl something that she would love if you’re courting her. The most common gifts are huge teddy bears, flowers, chocolates, etc. But the best thing to do if you want to give out something to her is if you give her family a present or treat them to a tour. This would not only be a big thing for the Filipino woman you’re dating but you would also have bonus points from her family.

  6. Have a sense of humor.

    Marilyn Monroe quote about making a woman laugh

    Being able to make a girl laugh is always one of the most attractive thing a guy could have. For a Filipino woman, this quality would probably be the top thing they’re looking for in a guy. Just feel comfortable with yourself and don’t hesitate to share that pick up line. It would still be funny if it’s a corny one.

  7. Always be polite.

    Filipino women are conservative by nature. So be careful with your words and behaviour when you’re with her. Don’t ask any offensive questions, make sexual advances and innuendos. It’s definitely a major turn off. Don’t expect a second date if you’re guilty of doing these things in the past.

  8. Never give up.

    It is in a nature of a Filipino woman to be the “hard to get” type. Great things don’t come easy. So it means that when you finally got her love and trust, you’ll never regret all the efforts you’ve put up while wooing her.

  9. Always remember that Filipino women are conservative.

    Filipino women are conservative

    Filipino women are very conservative. Don’t expect touching and kissing on the first date unlike in the west where women might be a bit more open. Filipinos are raised in a different culture. They’re very shy and reserved when it comes to men. The best thing to do is to just make her comfortable while hanging out with you.

  10. Always have a good smell and hygiene.

    This is pretty obvious. If you want to have a good impression on her and her family, smelling good and looking neat is a must! Remember, first impressions lasts. You don’t want her first impression on you to be the guy who dresses and smells like a garbage can, right?

  11. Related Article: Qualities Filipino Women Look For in a Man

Below is a graphic presentation on the most important you should know if you’re planning on dating a Filipino woman.

Filipino dating tips infographic

Dating a Filipino is definitely challenging but in the end, these women can give you the home and family you’ve been wanting to have. They’re the ideal women to date and marry.

Online dating can be be pretty exciting when you’re just starting out. You’ll get to meet new and mingle with new people but it’s still very important to remember that people can easily trick you on the internet. It is a common knowledge that dating sites are a dwelling place for scammers and catfishers. People in online dating sites are most likely to make rash decisions because strong feelings and emotions are in the air.

In TrulyFilipino, we try to get rid of these scammers as hard as we can by the help of our 24/7 support team. But some of these people still manage to get through our ever watchful eyes. We’re here to help you at spotting these scammers in order to have the ideal Filipino dating experience.

Characteristics of a scammer and how to avoid them:

  1. They have a vague dating profile.

    While you’re browsing profiles on TrulyFilipino and you found someone who caught your eye, the best thing to do next is to ALWAYS check their profiles first before you send them a message. If you notice that their profile is as plain as the dessert, stay away from that profile immediately. A real person would take time in filling out their online dating profile since they want to attract the person that they want to meet.

  2. They constantly avoid answering questions about them.

    TrulyFilipino online dating safety tips

    This characteristic is definitely a major red flag in online dating. It seems really suspicious that the person you’re chatting with is so curious about your life but won't share anything about theirs, The best thing to do would just stop talking to this user to avoid any heartaches in the end.

  3. They request to borrow money from you.

    This is a big no-no! You’re just starting to have a conversation with someone in an online dating site and all of a sudden, they’re asking to borrow some money because of a family member’s sudden illness or for some other reason that would probably make you believe them. If this ever happens to you, stop making contact immediately! They’re most likely scammers who would just wants to take advantage of you by making up an unfortunate story which would make you send them money in order help them out.

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  4. Their dating profile is just too good to be true.

    Always watch out for people whose profile is kind of next to perfect. You’ll notice that on their profile, they use a photo of a very good looking man or woman and their profile descriptions are just too perfect.

    TrulyFilipino online dating safety tips

    The best thing to do to authenticate that person’s identity is to do some research on them. One way is to search for them in social media sites, make sure they also have accounts there. Another is to do a Google Image Search. Doing a little research could actually give you the chance to prevent heartaches in the future.

  5. Their stories are inconsistent.

    It’s difficult to keep an identity when you’re pretending to be someone you’re not. There will be times when a person just slips out and with this simple slip, a red flag would most likely be raised and waved. We’ll never know what’s the purpose of that person as to why they do what they do. It might be because they wanted to get some money out of you or just ashamed of what they are. If the person’s the latter, never be ashamed of what you are. A person would eventually come and love you the way you are.

    TrulyFilipino online dating safety tips

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With TrulyFilipino’s 24/7 support team, we try out best to remove scammers from our site. We want our users to experience Filipino dating without the hassle and heavy cost that would surely make them successful in their online dating journey by meeting their ideal match.

Looking for a Filipino match whether if it's through online or offline means is definitely hard. But love is supposed to be complicated, right? Because in the end, it will all be worth it. And if you've read everything above, you'd know that dating Filipino women are difinitely a breath of fresh air when you're ready to take on a serious relationship.

If you're up on trying Filipino online dating, join TrulyFilipino today and meet Filipino singles worldwide!